03/05/25

Today marks the second day of the Venus–Neptune conjunction, and its dreamy, emotional energy only intensifies, especially when it comes to love and relationships. Venus and Neptune together invite us to see the most idealistic, spiritual version of love, and also challenge us to recognize illusions, longings, and misplaced expectations. It’s the kind of transit that stirs our heart’s deepest desires while also encouraging a more compassionate, soulful view of connection.

With Venus still conjunct Neptune, this is one of the most spiritually rich days to explore a synastry chart, a map of how two people’s energies interact. Under this influence, we’re more attuned to the soul-level dynamics in our relationships: where we project, where we idealize, where we truly connect. A synastry reading today can reveal the emotional patterns beneath your love stories and help you see your connections with more compassion, depth, and understanding. If there’s someone you can’t stop thinking about, or a relationship you want to understand more fully, this is the perfect day to look at it through the stars.

This morning, under the influence of Venus conjunct Neptune, I began reflecting on how often we seek to be loved better, adjusting our actions, our words, and our behavior in hopes that someone will show us the love we’ve always dreamed of receiving.

But today, I realized something important: the love we’re searching for is already inside us. What if, instead of waiting for others to love us the way we desire, we focused on loving ourselves the way we want to be loved? This isn’t just about self-care—it’s about embodying love in its purest form. When we love ourselves fully, we naturally radiate that love to others, without expectation.

I remembered a moment recently when I gave love without expecting anything in return. It wasn’t about grand gestures; it was simply caring for someone else without the need for validation. And in that moment, I realized: This is love. I am love.

Instead of focusing on how to be loved more or better, the real question we need to ask ourselves is: How can I love better? How can I bring the love I wish to receive into my life right now, in the way I speak to myself, the way I treat others, and the energy I share?

Love is not about proving our worth; it’s about embodying it, radiating it, and being fully present with the love that is already here. It is through this presence that the love we seek naturally returns to us.

So, today, as Venus and Neptune dance together, remember that you are not waiting for love to come find you. You are living it. You are creating it every moment, and it’s time to embrace that truth.

The love you give, whether it’s to yourself or to someone else—is the love that shapes your world. It is already within you, waiting to be fully seen, felt, and shared.