09/09/25

At 21:18 PT, Venus squares Lilith, a transit that often brings tension between our desires for harmony and the raw, untamed aspects of the feminine. This alignment pushes us to confront what we hide, what we suppress, and what parts of ourselves feel too wild or too honest to be fully embraced. It’s not always comfortable, but it’s deeply necessary, because integration of the shadow is how authenticity blooms.

Venus square Lilith shines a light on how we relate to intimacy, desire, and power dynamics in our connections. A synastry chart reveals where harmony flows and where tension sparks between two people, making today an ideal time to uncover the deeper patterns in your relationships.

This evening I found myself reflecting on how difficult it is, after years of influence and conditioning, to really connect to feminine energy in its purest form. Not the polished, curated version that society celebrates, but the raw, unfiltered current that runs deep within us.

From such a young age, we’re taught to shape-shift. To be pleasing, to soften our edges, to make ourselves palatable. Somewhere in the process, the wild feminine gets pushed into the corners, waiting for us to call her back.

Reconnecting with that energy doesn’t happen all at once, it happens in whispers. In the moments when we drop the performance and let ourselves feel fully. In tears we don’t swallow, in laughter we don’t restrain, in boundaries we honor even when they disrupt.

The Moon’s cycles remind us that the feminine is not static, it’s shifting, flowing, untamed by nature. To honor it, we must allow ourselves to move with that rhythm instead of trying to control it.

When Venus and Lilith square, they remind us that there’s beauty in tension. The push and pull between refinement and rawness is not something to fix, it’s something to feel. Both are true, both are valid, and both live within us.

This transit invites us to reclaim the pieces we’ve buried and to see that embracing our wholeness doesn’t make us “too much”, it makes us real. And that’s the very essence of feminine power.