18/09/25

Let me map out a pattern and you tell me if it sounds familiar:

1. You meet someone who lights you up inside

2. There's an intense initial connection - they pursue hard

3. You finally start to trust and open your heart

4. Suddenly, they pull back or reveal they're not ready

5. You chase, trying to return to that initial magic

6. They withdraw even further

7. You blame yourself, wondering what you did wrong

This isn't just bad luck. This is an energetic pattern written in your birth chart.

And until you break it, you'll keep attracting the same unavailable person in different bodies.

Diana knew this pattern intimately. At 40, her husband of 12 years had an affair. The betrayal shattered her. But what hurt more was recognizing the pattern - every man she'd ever loved had one foot out the door.

When we examined her chart, the pattern was crystal clear:

• Pluto conjunct Venus (intensity and transformation through love)

• Plus Chiron in the 7th house (the wound of betrayal in partnerships)

Her soul had literally chosen to master trust through betrayal. Not as punishment, but as her pathway to unshakeable self-worth.

Here's what most people don't understand: You don't attract what you want. You attract what matches your energetic frequency.

• If your Venus (love) is afflicted by Saturn (restriction), you'll attract people who restrict love.

• If your Moon (emotions) squares Pluto (intensity), you'll attract intense but destructive connections.

• If your 7th house ruler is in the 12th (hidden), you'll attract unavailable or secretive partners.

It's not personal. It's energetic physics.

Diana spent six months healing her Chiron wound using the exact protocols I teach in the Natal Love Code. She worked with her Pluto-Venus conjunction to transform her relationship with power and vulnerability.

Then something shifted. The unavailable men stopped showing up. Instead, she started attracting men who were present, committed, and actually available.

At 44, she met Marcus. A widower who understood loss, who showed up consistently, who chose her every single day. They married last spring.

"Once I understood WHY I attracted betrayal," Diana told me, "I could finally stop repeating it. My chart wasn't cursing me - it was showing me exactly what needed to heal."

Interestingly, Mercury enters Libra today - the planet of communication entering the sign of relationships. The universe is literally supporting clearer communication in love right now.

The question is: Will you keep repeating your pattern, or will you finally break it?

Tomorrow, I'll address the fear every woman over 30 faces - that you're running out of time to find love.

With cosmic clarity, Sonya Schwartz

P.S. Diana sent me their wedding photo with a note: "Thank you for showing me that my wounds were actually my wisdom in disguise." You have that same wisdom waiting to be unlocked.

At 03:06 PT, Mercury enters Libra, bringing a softer, more diplomatic energy into how we think, speak, and connect. This transit reminds us that luck isn’t always about chance, it’s about alignment. When our words and intentions harmonize with our actions, we begin to see “luck” as the natural flow of balance returning to us.

Mercury entering Libra heightens clarity in relationships. It’s a perfect time to explore your synastry chart and see how balance, communication, and harmony play out between you and another, where luck flows together, and where conversations open new paths of connection.